Marriage Counseling

Support for When You Feel Stuck, Disconnected, or Unsure How to Reach Each Other Anymore

Couples Therapy for Marriage

Marriage can be deeply fulfilling—but it can also feel painful and isolating when you find yourselves stuck in the same arguments, feeling disconnected, or unsure how to reach each other anymore.

If you’ve been having the same conversations on repeat, walking on eggshells, or feeling more like roommates than partners, you’re not alone. These patterns are incredibly common—and they’re also changeable.

In my work with couples, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), an evidence-based approach specifically designed to help couples reconnect and strengthen their bond. EFT is grounded in the understanding that we all have a deep need for emotional safety, connection, and responsiveness in our closest relationships.

What often looks like conflict on the surface is actually a cycle driven by unmet needs and protective responses. One partner may pursue, the other may withdraw—but underneath it, both are longing to feel secure, valued, and connected.

This doesn’t mean your marriage is failing. It means you’re caught in a pattern that can be understood—and shifted.

In our work together, we’ll:

  • Identify and gently interrupt the negative cycles you’re stuck in

  • Help you better understand each other’s emotional experiences

  • Create a safer space for honest, vulnerable communication

  • Rebuild trust, connection, and intimacy

Rather than focusing on who’s right or wrong, we focus on the relationship itself, helping you move from disconnection to a more secure, supportive bond.

Interested in working together?

Fill out the form to the right to get in touch. You can also email diana@somahousecounseling.com

I will get back to you within 24 hours, and together we’ll find a time that works for your first session.

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”

-C.S. Lewis